Schedule Today

Hiding an Unexpected Pregnancy From My Roommate

One of the hardest things about an unexpected pregnancy can be deciding how to tell someone. Perhaps you’re still thinking about your options. Or, maybe you’re not sure how to talk about being pregnant. It can take time before you’re ready to discuss it with people who are close to you. If you live with a roommate, keeping your pregnancy a secret can be a challenge. You may be worried about how this new change will affect him or her. Will your roommate support you? What will the reaction be? These are pressing questions. But you don’t have to work through them alone. Where do you turn if you’re hiding an unexpected pregnancy from your roommate?

Do you have concerns about telling your roommate that you’re pregnant? Avenue Women’s Center can provide you with a confidential environment to discuss your unexpected pregnancy worries. You can book a free consultation with our staff to learn more about your options and available resources. We can also prepare you for talking with people who may be connected to your situation. Our six locations in DuPage County offer one on one, confidential consultations we can discuss building a pregnancy plan.

Contact us today for help communicating with others about your unexpected pregnancy!  

Should I Tell My Roommate That I’m Pregnant?  

No matter your relationship, there may be hesitation to share your pregnancy news with your roommate. Even if you’re friends that have been living together for a long time, you might be nervous to be open to it. How will your roommate react to this new situation? What if your roommate doesn’t want to live with you anymore if they find out? If you choose to keep your pregnancy hidden, will there be any feelings of resentment later?

Before you make a major decision, it’s recommended you work out a plan. Once you process a few basic steps, the solution might seem clearer. You may want to enlist the help of a counselor or a pregnancy consultant as you sort through these possible outcomes. An unexpected pregnancy can be very stressful for some women. There may be a lot of questions on your mind. Having an informed resource to confide in can be uplifting.

Your Pregnancy Decision Questions

Each possible scenario may involve a different set of decisions. It can be helpful to work through them all. This way, you can accurately measure what you want.

  • Do you want your roommate to be there for you if you choose abortion? Will you want someone with you as you gather information about side effects and aftercare? Would it be helpful to have a personal resource to confide in as you process this choice?
  • What are your thoughts on parenting? Will you and your roommate need to adjust your living situation? How can you accommodate one another during this new arrangement?
  • What might you need from your roommate if you pursue adoption? Do you want your roommate with you as you learn about your adoption choices? Will you need their help getting through the process?

There may be a lot of changes involved with each decision. Your roommate may need time to process the news if you tell them. But try to focus on what it is that you need. It’s likely that you have a lot of choices ahead of you. By carefully thinking about each one, you may find the option that works best.

An unexpected pregnancy can seem scary at first. Both for you and those involved. No matter what you decide, you deserve to know that help is available.

Are you wondering how to communicate with your roommate about your pregnancy? Avenue Women’s Center can meet with you to help you develop a plan. Our expert staff will walk you through your options of abortion, adoption, and parenting. We’ll also listen to your concerns and answer your valid questions within a nonjudgmental setting. Understandably, you may be feeling a bit isolated at this time. You may be wondering how to tell your friends and family that you’re pregnant. We’re here to help you work through any anxieties so you can feel confident in your decision.

Reach out today for compassionate care at no cost!

The information provided here is general in nature.  It is not a substitute for a consultation with a medical professional. Before any medical procedure, it is imperative that you discuss your personal medical history, risks, and concerns with your doctor. If you have questions during or after a procedure, your doctor should be immediately contacted. Avenue Women’s Center is not an emergency center.  If you are experiencing severe symptoms, such as bleeding and/or pain, seek immediate medical attention.  Contact your physician, go to an emergency room, or call 911.