Facing an unexpected pregnancy can make it feel like your life has suddenly been turned upside down. And the thought of telling your parents the news is likely only adding to that stress.
Your feelings are understandable, but there are strategies you can take to make telling your parents the news easier.
This article will explore those strategies. However, if you’re looking for a safe space to talk about your pregnancy and learn more about your options and free services that can help, contact us today. All appointments and resources are free and confidential.
Research Your Options First
You have opinions for this pregnancy. It’s essential to remember that your pregnancy decision is yours alone to make. While you likely value your parents’ opinions, you need to make your pregnancy decision for yourself.
Your pregnancy options include parenting, adoption, and abortion. The more you know about these options, the more you will be able to make an educated decision and stand firm when you go into the conversation with your parents.
Prepare What You Want to Say
After you’ve researched your pregnancy options, it is helpful to consider what you want to say to your parents when you tell them the news.
Some talking points to consider include:
- What pregnancy decision(s) am I considering and why?
- How can I work toward my goals while moving forward with my pregnancy decision?
- How can my parents best support me right now?
It’s also important to consider how you will respond if your parents don’t react the way you hope.
Choose the Time and Place
Tell your parents the news when they aren’t distracted and can give you their full attention. Are they less busy on the weekends? If so, this might be the best time.
Choosing a place where you feel comfortable is also important. Do you feel most at ease at home or in- person? Picking a comfortable spot will give you an element of control over this conversation.
You’re Not Alone in This
At Avenue Women’s Center, we understand the worry, uncertainty, and stress you’re feeling as you think about telling your parents the news. But you’re not alone in this. We’re here for you.
Contact us today to schedule a free, confidential appointment and discover a safe, non-judgmental place to talk and learn more about your pregnancy options.
The information provided here is general in nature. It is not a substitute for a consultation with a medical professional. Before any medical procedure, it is imperative that you discuss your personal medical history, risks, and concerns with your doctor. If you have questions during or after a procedure, your doctor should be immediately contacted. Avenue Women’s Center is not an emergency center. If you are experiencing severe symptoms, such as bleeding and/or pain, seek immediate medical attention. Contact your physician, go to an emergency room, or call 911.