Finding out you’re unexpectedly pregnant can bring many emotions. Those feelings can intensify when people you care about offer strong opinions about what you should do. If your friends are encouraging you to have an abortion, but you aren’t sure, take a moment to pause. You deserve time to reflect and decide for yourself.
At Avenue Women’s Center, we provide no-cost, confidential pregnancy consultations. In these consultations, you can get honest information and talk through your situation with someone who truly listens. Schedule an appointment today to bring clarity and support right when you need it.
Your Decision, Your Future
It’s normal for friends to want to help, but sometimes their opinions come from their own experiences, fears, or personal beliefs, not necessarily what’s best for you. The truth is, you’re the one who will live with this decision. That’s why taking your time and thinking about what matters most to you is essential.
Ask yourself:
- What do I truly want for my future?
- How do I feel when I picture each option—abortion, adoption, or parenting?
- Am I making this choice on my own or because I feel pressured?
Taking time to reflect doesn’t mean you’re indecisive. It means you’re thoughtful and strong enough to make a choice that aligns with your values and circumstances.
Understanding the Risks of Abortion
Before making a decision, it’s important to understand what having an abortion involves. While abortion may be presented as a “quick fix,” it’s a medical procedure that comes with potential physical and emotional risks.
We can share helpful information about possible risks and side effects and talk through what the process may involve, so you can feel more confident and informed about your decision.
Setting Boundaries and Protecting Your Peace
If your friends are being too insistent, it’s okay to create space. You might say, “I appreciate your concern, but I need time to make this decision myself.” Stepping back from conversations that feel overwhelming can protect your emotional well-being.
Boundaries aren’t selfish. They’re essential when making a deeply personal decision like this.
Get Clarity in a Safe, Confidential Space
At Avenue Women’s Center, you’ll never be rushed or pressured. We offer:
- Free, confidential pregnancy consultations
- Information about all your options, including abortion, adoption, and parenting
- Same-day appointments so you can talk with a compassionate pregnancy consultant as soon as possible
You deserve to make a confident, informed choice in a safe and caring environment.
Schedule your no-cost, confidential appointment at Avenue Women’s Center today.
FAQ:
Can anyone force me to have an abortion?
No. The decision about your pregnancy is entirely yours. No one can legally make that choice for you – not a partner, parent, or anyone else..
What if my friends threaten to cut me off if I don’t go through with it?
That kind of pressure isn’t fair or healthy. True friends respect your right to make your own decision, even if they disagree. If you’re feeling pressured, it might help to talk with someone outside your situation for support.
What if I’m scared to face this alone?
You don’t have to. You’re not alone in this. Our pregnancy consultants are here to listen, offer encouragement, and connect you with helpful information every step of the way.
Does Avenue Women’s Center provide abortions?
No. We do not provide or refer for abortions, but we can offer accurate, evidence-based information about abortion procedures and other options so you can make an informed decision that feels right for you.
The information provided here is general in nature. It is not a substitute for a consultation with a medical professional. Before any medical procedure, it is imperative that you discuss your personal medical history, risks, and concerns with your doctor. If you have questions during or after a procedure, your doctor should be immediately contacted. Avenue Women’s Center is not an emergency center. If you are experiencing severe symptoms, such as bleeding and/or pain, seek immediate medical attention. Contact your physician, go to an emergency room, or call 911.