Have you recently received a positive pregnancy test result that you never saw coming? If so, it probably feels as though your entire world has been turned upside down. Perhaps you’re considering an abortion in the wake of this shocking discovery, and your family doesn’t know. They may or may not be aware of the pregnancy at all. If they do understand what you’re facing, they may be under the impression that you’re leaning towards parenting or making an adoption plan. No matter your situation, it’s probably safe to say that you’re scared of your loved ones’ potential reactions. Circumstances like yours can feel isolating. Thankfully, you don’t have to brave this pregnancy journey on your own.
Our expert pregnancy consultants and nurses at Avenue Women’s Center are available to help you navigate your next steps. We’re a limited medical clinic with multiple locations in Chicagoland, and we’re honored to provide free first-step pregnancy services to individuals and families who need them. Avenue offers medical-grade pregnancy tests, options consultations, limited medical ultrasounds, and more!
Contact us today to speak with a caring staff member and learn more about Avenue!
“Approaching a Pregnancy Decision and Worrying About My Loved Ones’ Views”
Maybe you’re most concerned about a parent’s, sibling’s, or grandparent’s response to the fact that abortion is on the table for you. Perhaps you’re more worried about your spouse’s reaction, an adult child’s, or someone else’s. Each of these possible scenarios carries its own unique set of challenges. When it comes to sharing this kind of news with parents in particular, it’s natural to feel anxious no matter how old you are, or whether or not you’re all living under the same roof. Your loved ones’ feelings and opinions probably matter a lot to you. The decision you’re facing is a significant one that’s bound to impact their lives as well as yours. So, your apprehension is understandable. Just remember that it’s possible to honor their feelings while making a pregnancy decision that comes from your gut. Needless to say, you’re going to be much more deeply affected by your pregnancy outcome than anyone else. It’s critical to choose the path that’s best for you.
“Should I Tell My Family that I’m Considering Abortion?”
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer to this question. Every set of circumstances includes so many unique factors. Telling family members about your unexpected pregnancy and the fact that you’re contemplating abortion may or may not be a wise and healthy step for you. This depends on your relationship dynamics and other considerations. Just remember that confiding in someone compassionate and trustworthy (whether a family member or somebody else) could play a vital role in your decision-making process. It can be really beneficial to look at your circumstances from another perspective and hear yourself process your own thoughts and feelings out loud. Sharing your story could also present opportunities to receive practical and emotional support, so you can feel as equipped as possible for the outcome ahead of you.
Understanding Your Pregnancy Options
Getting support is critical, and so is understanding your pregnancy options. Like any pregnancy alternative, abortion comes with its own set of processes and risks. There are different methods available depending on factors like the gestational age (how far along the woman is). And because any kind of abortion is a medical process, it’s always beneficial to speak with a qualified medical professional before moving forward. Be sure to fully understand any option that’s on the table before taking active steps toward it. This approach will allow you to make the most knowledgeable choice possible. Consider learning about your other pregnancy options as well, even if you’re pretty confident you won’t be pursuing them. There’s never any harm in making a more informed decision with a broader knowledge of the avenues that are open to you.
Your own best pregnancy decision will flow out of your own heart and mind. Still, getting outside support will not only help you figure out the soundest way forward. It will help you find the courage to pursue it. Avenue Women’s Center is here to walk by your side throughout your pregnancy journey. We’re available to provide accurate, easy-to-understand information about abortion and your other pregnancy options. Helping you thrive- even in the middle of overwhelming circumstances- is what we strive for.
Connect with us today! We promise you’ll be met with unconditional empathy and support. Avenue is a judgment-free zone.
The information provided here is general in nature. It is not a substitute for a consultation with a medical professional. Before any medical procedure, it is imperative that you discuss your personal medical history, risks, and concerns with your doctor. If you have questions during or after a procedure, your doctor should be immediately contacted. Avenue Women’s Center is not an emergency center. If you are experiencing severe symptoms, such as bleeding and/or pain, seek immediate medical attention. Contact your physician, go to an emergency room, or call 911.